Compromising is the key, Forgiving is a routine, Accepting is maturing.
Why relationships fail? Preemptively, many cliché answers
will surface. Is it because there’s better tasting fishes out there? Or is it
because it was wrong from the get go? There’s no definitive answer to that
question when you factor in all the emotions and details. But in the end all
the reasons are very similar. Well the way I see it, when I was around 16 when I
started dating , I bawled my eyes out like a little boy losing his front tooth
( no worse , I cried like a bitch) when my first girlfriend broke up with me. I
didn’t know what I was getting into. I try and try again to find back that feelin that I had with my first love and I realized that it is impossible to find it
in other girls. That is when I learn , love is not as simple as holding each other’s hands. Ironically that is what it is
supposed to be… Naive and pure.
I find myself looking for that particular feeling I had with my first one, I find myself accepting whoever that confessed. One relationship after another, I got immune to break ups. I am not heartless I just think it is not worth my time. Truth is I am not a very persistent person, my face is not made out of rhino butt, I pull out a the slightest feeling of rejection. Yes I am sensitive like that , I be like sending a text saying “hi” and after 5 minutes , I tell myself if she is interested she will reply in the second.
I find myself looking for that particular feeling I had with my first one, I find myself accepting whoever that confessed. One relationship after another, I got immune to break ups. I am not heartless I just think it is not worth my time. Truth is I am not a very persistent person, my face is not made out of rhino butt, I pull out a the slightest feeling of rejection. Yes I am sensitive like that , I be like sending a text saying “hi” and after 5 minutes , I tell myself if she is interested she will reply in the second.
I have always feared , the feeling of being comfortable around my girlfriend that it became routine .If you meet your bf/gf everyday ,
you don’t hate them , you will find yourself losing that “spark” that butterfly
in your stomach when u held her hands for the first time . It just becomes a
norm, a routine. You lost all the reasons to hold on to the relationship, You
will then tell yourself “I am worth more than this, why settle for less?
See here’s the thing, people often mistake love for emotion. It is not, it is about compromising , forgiving ,and learning to accept each other’s flaw. But of course if you are all about whoring your way like a player, you can disregard all those that I just said. One day you would have to settle down maybe you can refer back to this blog and read it again. If you are into long term relationships, that shit is hard. Compromising is the key, forgiving is a routine, accepting is maturing. Ask yourself this, where is your limit? Can you see yourself compromising with your partner’s ideals and principles? Can you see yourself forgiving your partner for cheating? Can you accept the fact that she is not you thought she was? Well that my friend is why relationships fail. Hell marriages ends in divorce is because of people mistake love for emotions. No love isn’t an emotion or even a noun, It’s a verb, better defined as giving , As putting someone else’s needs above your own.
See here’s the thing, people often mistake love for emotion. It is not, it is about compromising , forgiving ,and learning to accept each other’s flaw. But of course if you are all about whoring your way like a player, you can disregard all those that I just said. One day you would have to settle down maybe you can refer back to this blog and read it again. If you are into long term relationships, that shit is hard. Compromising is the key, forgiving is a routine, accepting is maturing. Ask yourself this, where is your limit? Can you see yourself compromising with your partner’s ideals and principles? Can you see yourself forgiving your partner for cheating? Can you accept the fact that she is not you thought she was? Well that my friend is why relationships fail. Hell marriages ends in divorce is because of people mistake love for emotions. No love isn’t an emotion or even a noun, It’s a verb, better defined as giving , As putting someone else’s needs above your own.
Sometimes you just find yourself giving and giving and
giving, and your partner start to take you for granted and got used to
receiving, that’s when you are steering your relationship into pre-destined
upheaval . Slowly but surely, those pent up emotions is gonna crack your heart,
and when that happened you will have a void in your chest and you are no
different than a reanimated zombie. A heartless bastard seeking vengeance.
